Guidelines & Information for the Tantric Moments YOUNG Evenings
Below you will find the guidelines and practical matters to ensure we can come together in a safe setting and in harmony with one another.
Please read these guidelines in advance and check within yourself if you can agree with them. If not, please contact us.
The Basic Safety Guidelines:
- You are in a healthy and stable mental and emotional state and can take responsibility for yourself.
- Everyone in the group deserves discretion, as well as what is shared and experienced. Do not talk about the experiences of group members outside of the session, and certainly do not mention any names. You are free to share your own experiences and the offered structures with others.
- Respect your own boundaries and feelings. Respect the boundaries of the other participants.
- You take responsibility for yourself, and others do the same. This creates safety, allowing you to purely explore your part of the relating.
- Boundaries and desires are two different things: Do not cross your boundaries to accommodate others’ desires. And do not expect others to cross their boundaries to fulfill your desires.
- You can (even if unsure) step out of an exercise or work with another partner (for example, an assistant). If you notice that you no longer wish to do an exercise with the partner you are currently working with, communicate this.
- You do not have to justify yourself, even if someone in the group asks for an explanation.
- Try to remain curious and open, even if you have a painful or difficult experience, or if you feel resistance. Often, these experiences offer the most interesting and transformative insights about yourself.
- All exercises are done clothed, and men also keep their tops on.
- If your intention to participate in the evening is for sex or dating, this is not the right setting. We ask you not to come with this intention. If it is not your intention but it is on your agenda, reflect on this consciously and bring it as a subject for your own exploration.
- If an exercise arouses sexual energy for you, and you want to pursue it, take responsibility when working with a partner with whom you do not share these feelings outside the setting. Option 1: Share your feelings with this partner and check if it is mutual and/or welcomed. Option 2: Relax with the feelings, enjoy them, but keep them to yourself and do not act on them.
- You are free to leave the workshop, but for the safety of the team and the group, it is important to know that you are leaving in a good way. Therefore, do not leave the session without informing the facilitator or one of the assistants.
- Tantric Moments does not exchange personal data of participants. We also recommend not doing this after just one meeting. Meet again (spontaneously) in the same field if there is a mutual connection. After several meetings, you can exchange information if you both wish to. The desire to contact someone after a special meeting is very human, but it also offers an opportunity for inner exploration and reflection.
If you cannot agree with the above guidelines, please cancel your participation and/or contact us.
If you agree, then you are welcome to join us this evening!
And now the practical matters:
- Be on time! You are welcome from 7:00 PM, and we start at 7:30 PM. Latecomers are not welcome to ensure a safe and calm atmosphere.
- Wear loose clothing that is comfortable and allows you to move freely.
- We are in studio 10 at EdanZ.
- After we finish, the central space is often locked, so we leave the building through the end of the hallway. This means it may be impractical to leave belongings in the central space.
- The dressing room next to studio 10 will be locked during the workshop, so your belongings are safe there.
- There will be a 15-minute break halfway through (around 9:00 PM).
- Please indicate if you need to go to the restroom so you can check if the timing is convenient. It is disruptive if your partner or the entire group has to wait for you. Usually, a suitable solution can be easily arranged.
- Shoes are not allowed in the session room.
- Tea and water are available.
We look forward to experiencing another very special evening with you this time!
Warm regards,
The Tantric Moments YOUNG Team
Nectar | young@tantricmoments.nl | +31(0)50.2340030 (also What’s app)
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